Have not updated in a bit. Last weekend went out with my Beatrice. It went swimmingly. Was getting texts from a girl in my harem who wanted to fuck, but I wasn't feeling it. She gets too clingy. We'll probably get together this weekend.
Tuesday was Valentine's day. Went out to two dollar Tuesdays with a co-worker, then headed over to a local bar where some people from the internet were meeting up. I met up with them, but there was a terrible girl/guy ratio. One guy looked cool so I said to him, "Hey, you wanna go inside and hit on women?" He agreed. We went inside and derped around a bit. We played some shuffle board. Then I saw a twoset sitting by us so I went and opened them. It went great. My target took to me right away and my new wing got along with his HB. I got my target's number, then we played some shuffleboard. It was a fine time and me and the girl are going out Friday. Before leaving, I texted her: "Who is the coolest guy you met tonight? (Hint: It's NLA)." She responded positively, then later that day asked when we were going out. I guess I make good impressions.
Me and my wing were leaving the bar for the night, when I see some hottie walking alone down the street. Of course I open her. She is receptive and wants me to come inside for a drink with her, so I oblige and both me and my wing head in with her. She heads to the bar to get a drink and we grab a table. I am feeling wasted at this point and there's only one girl, so I tell my wing to take over and I jet.
Second Story: On the Importance of talking to EVERYBODY: There's this cute chick in my office building whom I see occasionally. She has a MAJOR bitch shield up 24/7, but I make it a point to say "hi" to her like I do most people. Anyway, I'm on the elevator yesterday, riding down. She gets on the floor below me. I say, "Hey, how you doin?" A second or two passes and she says, "Oh, are you talking to me?" And I'm like, "Yup. How you doing?" We talk for a little bit, I compliment her on her sweater as she is exiting the elevator. I then go about my day and go to lunch.
I get back from lunch, and apparently this chick came looking for me. I'm on the tenth floor and there are 12 floors in my building. She went up to the 12th, described me, and did the same until she got to my office. I was out of the office at the time, but she left a note with her phone number and office number. She told the guy at the front desk that she works alone. I called her last night and we had lunch today. I time-bridged for drinks later in the week.
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Monday, November 14, 2011
11/11/11 - Day 2
Logistics This day two was arranged after my Halloween pickup and k-close that can be found within this blog. We had originally planned to meetup that Sunday, but she claimed a hangover, so we did not meet. We agreed to meet the following Sunday to attend a museum. However, that fell through as well and plans were made for the Friday above. I arranged a guest-list pass for a show and had her pick a bar for us to meet. She arrived early and I was running late.
First Location - I arrived and hit the can right away (long drive). I found her and said, "do you remember me?" She said, "nope." I was working uphill. I offered to buy her a drink because I was late. I returned with the drink and we talked about a plethora of topics ranging from where we grew up (two towns apart from each other as it turns out), to what we do, to philosophizing on various subjects. We had two drinks at this location before moving on to the spot I had planned.
Second Location - However, upon arrival at the place, the line was terribly long. I suggested we have a drink at the bar across the way. She complied.
Third Location - We get in and order up a couple of Guiness. I think at one point I use my patented "sorry, I wasn't listening to you. I was staring at your legs" (she was wearing a short-short skirt and had on tights. Her legs looked good). It fell flat. This was going nowhere fast and every time I attempted kino, she was slightly put-off. Eventually she goes to the bathroom. When she comes back she says, "this isn't going to work." I say, "huh?" She says, "well, what do you think? Do you think this is working? I don't like waiting in lines." I have no idea what this is so I go, "whoa, whoa, whoa. What did you think was going on here? We're just two people having drinks. Nothing else." She seems satisfied with this and is intimating that she wants to go. I tell her, "Well, seeing as how I bought the last round of drinks, as far as I see it, you owe me a drink." Lol, she says, "you're right, I'll get you one." She orders it. I say, "you can have one too." She orders two.
The Bounce We sit there drinking these beers, and honestly I feel a weight lifted off my shoulders. I wasn't interesting in this girl that much anyway, and now that we're just hanging out, I feel downright giddy. So, we're talking and I am still initiating kino (which she is not totally compliant with). I send out a couple of texts and arrange to meetup with some other PUAs at other locations. I tell her where I am going and she says "oh, I like that bar." I tell her she can come too. She's non-commital but walks out with me. She says she's going to stop at a hotel and get a cab. I tell her it's fine and that I have to get my car. She starts walking with me and we walk for two or three blocks together. I have no idea what's going on. Eventually, we get to a corner and she says, "here's a cab." I tell her, "you should take it," and keep walking. She stops and says, "okay, I'm taking this cab...." Without turning around, I say "see ya."
lol, ok, so I was kind of a dick towards the end but I was honestly sick of her shit. She was playing games with me and I was not having it. At one point she let slip that she is currently living with her ex-boyfriend, does not bring people home, and has no plans of moving out. Dealbreaker as far as I'm concerned.
I think if I pushed the matter I could have gotten her to hang out more, but again, I was sick of this chick. The girl I made out with on Halloween was cute, loose (I mean body-language-wise, not morally), care-free and interesting. This girl was snobbish, a braggart and aloof. Maybe if I had gotten her more drunk it would have been better, but I could see there was no future there (which may have been what turned her off in the first place).
Later on I met up with a guy from the community and had a great time picking up this other chick. So the night wasn't a total waste.
First Location - I arrived and hit the can right away (long drive). I found her and said, "do you remember me?" She said, "nope." I was working uphill. I offered to buy her a drink because I was late. I returned with the drink and we talked about a plethora of topics ranging from where we grew up (two towns apart from each other as it turns out), to what we do, to philosophizing on various subjects. We had two drinks at this location before moving on to the spot I had planned.
Second Location - However, upon arrival at the place, the line was terribly long. I suggested we have a drink at the bar across the way. She complied.
Third Location - We get in and order up a couple of Guiness. I think at one point I use my patented "sorry, I wasn't listening to you. I was staring at your legs" (she was wearing a short-short skirt and had on tights. Her legs looked good). It fell flat. This was going nowhere fast and every time I attempted kino, she was slightly put-off. Eventually she goes to the bathroom. When she comes back she says, "this isn't going to work." I say, "huh?" She says, "well, what do you think? Do you think this is working? I don't like waiting in lines." I have no idea what this is so I go, "whoa, whoa, whoa. What did you think was going on here? We're just two people having drinks. Nothing else." She seems satisfied with this and is intimating that she wants to go. I tell her, "Well, seeing as how I bought the last round of drinks, as far as I see it, you owe me a drink." Lol, she says, "you're right, I'll get you one." She orders it. I say, "you can have one too." She orders two.
The Bounce We sit there drinking these beers, and honestly I feel a weight lifted off my shoulders. I wasn't interesting in this girl that much anyway, and now that we're just hanging out, I feel downright giddy. So, we're talking and I am still initiating kino (which she is not totally compliant with). I send out a couple of texts and arrange to meetup with some other PUAs at other locations. I tell her where I am going and she says "oh, I like that bar." I tell her she can come too. She's non-commital but walks out with me. She says she's going to stop at a hotel and get a cab. I tell her it's fine and that I have to get my car. She starts walking with me and we walk for two or three blocks together. I have no idea what's going on. Eventually, we get to a corner and she says, "here's a cab." I tell her, "you should take it," and keep walking. She stops and says, "okay, I'm taking this cab...." Without turning around, I say "see ya."
lol, ok, so I was kind of a dick towards the end but I was honestly sick of her shit. She was playing games with me and I was not having it. At one point she let slip that she is currently living with her ex-boyfriend, does not bring people home, and has no plans of moving out. Dealbreaker as far as I'm concerned.
I think if I pushed the matter I could have gotten her to hang out more, but again, I was sick of this chick. The girl I made out with on Halloween was cute, loose (I mean body-language-wise, not morally), care-free and interesting. This girl was snobbish, a braggart and aloof. Maybe if I had gotten her more drunk it would have been better, but I could see there was no future there (which may have been what turned her off in the first place).
Later on I met up with a guy from the community and had a great time picking up this other chick. So the night wasn't a total waste.
Friday, November 11, 2011
11/10/11 Day 2
The FR that led to this day 2 is here. In between there was some texting. She texted me the next day saying "totally forgot, but I have class until 9p on Thursday." I tell her to get her homework done early so we can go out after. She agrees, but on Thursday tries to flake, saying she has to work early Friday and asks if we can go out Sunday. I tell her "mebbe, but Sunday's no good." She replies back something, I call her naughty, she tells me it's on for tonight. Some logistical texts follow, and I tell her to meet me at a club at 10:30. Throughout the night she's asking me what to wear, where the place is, etc. Frankly, I thought she was a little crazy, but w/e.
Get there at 10:30 and order a drink. Wait around. She texts me, says she's there. I tell her where I am. She comes back and we hug. I tell her she looks good. I tell her to get a drink. We talk at the bar for a while. She's a close talker and pulls me in when she says something. It makes kino very easy. She is very sensual and it turns me on in a big way. I tell her. I also make sure to push-pull, ramp attraction, and generally be a PUA (in control of the situation, leading frame, etc.). For those of you guys wondering, I made her get her own drinks, but ended up buying her one towards the end of the night (after the k-close I think).
My biggest mistake of the night was not going in for the kiss close early. It took me a good hour before I just said "fuck it" and went in there. I really need to work on having balls and going in for the kiss close.
One of the funniest moments of the night was when I went to the bathroom and came back to find her talking to a guy. "He says he's a motivational speaker!" she says. I look the guy in the eyes. "that's great," I say. I smile. She's asking him questions, but I can tell he's getting uncomfortable. I just give him value and say, "awesome," whenever he says something. Then, when I'm finished, I open my gal and close off my body language. He gets the picture and ditches. I think he was a community guy, so if you were at Myth last night, let me know.
Anyway, we head out to a divey type bar. Then we get something to eat. Then we're in her car and I have her drive to my place (where I have a garden-type area in the back). I take her back there. We're both tired at this point (excuses, I know), so nothing really happens. We just sit back there and chill a bit. Then I have her drive me back to my car. I get out. She says, "you know, I won't bite," so I go back in and kiss her a bit. Then I get in my car and drive away.
Later that night I texted her, "we should do that again sometime, but with more sex ;)" No response. heh, we shall see.
Get there at 10:30 and order a drink. Wait around. She texts me, says she's there. I tell her where I am. She comes back and we hug. I tell her she looks good. I tell her to get a drink. We talk at the bar for a while. She's a close talker and pulls me in when she says something. It makes kino very easy. She is very sensual and it turns me on in a big way. I tell her. I also make sure to push-pull, ramp attraction, and generally be a PUA (in control of the situation, leading frame, etc.). For those of you guys wondering, I made her get her own drinks, but ended up buying her one towards the end of the night (after the k-close I think).
My biggest mistake of the night was not going in for the kiss close early. It took me a good hour before I just said "fuck it" and went in there. I really need to work on having balls and going in for the kiss close.
One of the funniest moments of the night was when I went to the bathroom and came back to find her talking to a guy. "He says he's a motivational speaker!" she says. I look the guy in the eyes. "that's great," I say. I smile. She's asking him questions, but I can tell he's getting uncomfortable. I just give him value and say, "awesome," whenever he says something. Then, when I'm finished, I open my gal and close off my body language. He gets the picture and ditches. I think he was a community guy, so if you were at Myth last night, let me know.
Anyway, we head out to a divey type bar. Then we get something to eat. Then we're in her car and I have her drive to my place (where I have a garden-type area in the back). I take her back there. We're both tired at this point (excuses, I know), so nothing really happens. We just sit back there and chill a bit. Then I have her drive me back to my car. I get out. She says, "you know, I won't bite," so I go back in and kiss her a bit. Then I get in my car and drive away.
Later that night I texted her, "we should do that again sometime, but with more sex ;)" No response. heh, we shall see.
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