Went out last night with a wing from the BAS boards. Was at the bar with boss and a colleague, but no fucks were given. Flirt with the bartender whose number I have until my friend arrives. As soon as he sits down he opens a twoset of girls to my left (the only girls in the place, basically. But both real cute). I hadn't even noticed them because I was busy talking to my bartender friend, colleagues, etc. But my wing goes right in and hooks. I ignore for a bit, but then jump in the set when I can. His target is real cute and the other chick has nice, big tits. Cool. I start talking to her (logistics are HB Tits, HB Blonde, Wing, Me lined up like ducks at the bar) across the other two and connect a bit. Sometimes I bring it back to blonde, sometimes talk just to my wing. We give them shit at times, and iso at times. At one point, HB tits asks me a question that I can either blow off, or will take some time to answer. I had been thinking that I needed to change the dynamics and this was the chance, so I said, "Hold on. I have to come over there and tell you." Picked up my beer and food, walked over to her like a boss, sat down and started telling her my story. After that it was natural. Initiate kino, ramp up buying pressure, seed next date, qualify the shit outta her, say, "we should hang out sometime . . ." yadda, yadda. Excused myself to go back and talk to my colleagues.
Coupla texts:
As for text message game, tried texting the bartender last night, but she is so fucking BORING to text. It really went nowhere. We were having more fun in the bar. Maybe she's just an "in person" chick.
Texted HB tits while still at the bar. "Save this number, it's the most important number you'll ever get." She texted a sarcastic "Who is this?" At which point I looked up, saw her smiling, and flipped her the fuck off. lol. She was just kidding around and you could tell it was the right text to send. HB Blonde says, "that was cheeeeeeesy. But I like it." :) Been texting HB tits all day ramping up temp and sexual interest. Probably take her out next wk sometime.
Texting some girl who lives down South. Met her in SF and keeping interest alive until she visits. There was definite interest when we met on both sides. We've been roll playing a lot and I am attempting to ramp up sexual interest. We'll see how it goes, but as she is so far away, it is low risk, high reward.
The chick from a post or two again who invited me to karaoke and I have been texting about her lip ring. Hadn't texted in a few days, but texted her today and got an almost instantaneous response. Her last response was "Hope all is great!" No idea wtf that is supposed to mean.
I'll be trying to work on my text game more as I've had way too many dead leads (where I just don't text at all). We'll see how it goes.
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Wednesday, April 25, 2012
Sunday, April 22, 2012
4/21/12 Ruminations
There are three main things holding me back from where I want to be with my social life right now. The first is funds. Going out every night is expensive. Taking chicks on dates is expensive. Recently, I've cut back on my alcohol intake and started with soda water which has helped my wallet out. It's still an expensive habit to keep up with.
The second thing is time. On weeknights, if I want to hit the gym and eat, I don't get out until 9:30/10. And that leaves room for nothing else, so laundry, housekeeping, dishes etc. tend to fall by the wayside during the week. Moreover, I am going to have to start studying soon which will put the kibosh on my weekday game for the timebeing.
The third thing messing with my game is the alcohol. Going out every night and drinking like a fish takes its toll. It just happens to be the nature of the game where you go out, meet with buddies, and you're at a bar so you start to drink. At the top I talked about starting with soda water as a way of conserving funds. I think that maybe that may help with this as well. Sober game is a different game but can still be played. However, I find it difficult to relate well to drunken girls when I am sober (and they are the kind of girls you find out at the bars at 10-12 on a weekday night).
Mini-FR: Went out Wednesday. Hit the bar with a coworker after work to watch some sports. He left early, but two of my lady friends came out to meet me. I seeded the "Flaming Dr. Pepper" shots next door and headed over to check it out. Took the shot and came back to the bar. Sat down and noticed two HBs to my right. Open them right the fuck up. Opener was something like, "Did you see those Flaming Dr. Pepper shots?" Transition into, "what are you drinking?" Etc. Find out that they are best friends since grade school or something. Talk about the plan for tomorrow night. The one closest to me (whom I've been talking to most for logistical reasons) tells me she is going to sing karaoke the next night. I number close her and say that maybe I'll see her tomorrow. Text her later that night with "maybe I'll come out to karaoke tomorrow sexy." Her response: "maybe you should." Didn't end up going to karaoke because beer, but I texted her and she wasn't going either due to a lip piercing. Anyone, I told her we'd hang out sometime in the future.
Last night I went out with a few buds from the forums. I was on the soda water plan early and decided to make it an early night. The most notable set was when PUA Jason and AFC friend went to go hit on girls. They walked over to a twoset of two good-looking girls I had seen earlier and hovered behind them. I watched about as much as I could stand of that and went over to open their asses up. "Heyyyyy!" I said, cheersing their glasses. The one girl wouldn't cheers me. I am unaffected and plow on. Ask what they're drinking (such a choad, right?!). HB blonde (on my left. HB Brunette I'm ignoring is on my right) says "Sprite." Lol. I look appalled. She says "imported." I give her shit for this. Maybe a little mock impressed. I tell her I'm drinking cola. ROYAL cola, so it's classy. We riff on this for a bit. She says she's a pickup sticks champion and brings her friend into the convo as a tether ball champion. I turn to the friend and talk to her for a bit. The conversation isn't really going anywhere, and if I wanted to continue the set, it would take another ten minutes or so. I see my wings lurking to the right, so I cheers them both (this time HB Blonde cheers's me) and exit the set.
I'm going to be working on sober game a lot more. I am tired of getting drunk every night and having interactions I don't remember. I was talking to one of my wings last night and he told me that I had some HB blonde all over my junk on Wednesday night, grabbing my ass and shit. I didn't remember a bit of it. Moreover, I had some random person's number in my phonebook whom I had no fucking clue who it was. Possibly that blonde. Later that night, apparently we were at a Mexican food place. I don't remember shit about that, but remembered tasting it the next morning and thinking, "when the fuck did I get Mexican?!"
For the future, I'd like to continue working on sober game and lessening my alcohol intake. I'd also like to focus on developing a deep rapport with women. I've recently met a woman with whom I've developed a deep connection. The difference between waking up next to a woman you care about and some random hookup is tenfold, and I much prefer the latter. Moreover, I have so many damn phone numbers in my book, I have no fucking clue what to do with them all. Some are stale, some I have no interest in, some I have no idea who the fuck they are, others I'd like to take out but have no gd money. I think what I'll try to do is work on the numbers I have by playing some text game. If they are dead numbers anyway, just sitting in my phone, then I have nothing to lose.
Finally, I've been clawing my way out of the friendzone with this one girl. Update/tips for that to come.
The second thing is time. On weeknights, if I want to hit the gym and eat, I don't get out until 9:30/10. And that leaves room for nothing else, so laundry, housekeeping, dishes etc. tend to fall by the wayside during the week. Moreover, I am going to have to start studying soon which will put the kibosh on my weekday game for the timebeing.
The third thing messing with my game is the alcohol. Going out every night and drinking like a fish takes its toll. It just happens to be the nature of the game where you go out, meet with buddies, and you're at a bar so you start to drink. At the top I talked about starting with soda water as a way of conserving funds. I think that maybe that may help with this as well. Sober game is a different game but can still be played. However, I find it difficult to relate well to drunken girls when I am sober (and they are the kind of girls you find out at the bars at 10-12 on a weekday night).
Mini-FR: Went out Wednesday. Hit the bar with a coworker after work to watch some sports. He left early, but two of my lady friends came out to meet me. I seeded the "Flaming Dr. Pepper" shots next door and headed over to check it out. Took the shot and came back to the bar. Sat down and noticed two HBs to my right. Open them right the fuck up. Opener was something like, "Did you see those Flaming Dr. Pepper shots?" Transition into, "what are you drinking?" Etc. Find out that they are best friends since grade school or something. Talk about the plan for tomorrow night. The one closest to me (whom I've been talking to most for logistical reasons) tells me she is going to sing karaoke the next night. I number close her and say that maybe I'll see her tomorrow. Text her later that night with "maybe I'll come out to karaoke tomorrow sexy." Her response: "maybe you should." Didn't end up going to karaoke because beer, but I texted her and she wasn't going either due to a lip piercing. Anyone, I told her we'd hang out sometime in the future.
Last night I went out with a few buds from the forums. I was on the soda water plan early and decided to make it an early night. The most notable set was when PUA Jason and AFC friend went to go hit on girls. They walked over to a twoset of two good-looking girls I had seen earlier and hovered behind them. I watched about as much as I could stand of that and went over to open their asses up. "Heyyyyy!" I said, cheersing their glasses. The one girl wouldn't cheers me. I am unaffected and plow on. Ask what they're drinking (such a choad, right?!). HB blonde (on my left. HB Brunette I'm ignoring is on my right) says "Sprite." Lol. I look appalled. She says "imported." I give her shit for this. Maybe a little mock impressed. I tell her I'm drinking cola. ROYAL cola, so it's classy. We riff on this for a bit. She says she's a pickup sticks champion and brings her friend into the convo as a tether ball champion. I turn to the friend and talk to her for a bit. The conversation isn't really going anywhere, and if I wanted to continue the set, it would take another ten minutes or so. I see my wings lurking to the right, so I cheers them both (this time HB Blonde cheers's me) and exit the set.
I'm going to be working on sober game a lot more. I am tired of getting drunk every night and having interactions I don't remember. I was talking to one of my wings last night and he told me that I had some HB blonde all over my junk on Wednesday night, grabbing my ass and shit. I didn't remember a bit of it. Moreover, I had some random person's number in my phonebook whom I had no fucking clue who it was. Possibly that blonde. Later that night, apparently we were at a Mexican food place. I don't remember shit about that, but remembered tasting it the next morning and thinking, "when the fuck did I get Mexican?!"
For the future, I'd like to continue working on sober game and lessening my alcohol intake. I'd also like to focus on developing a deep rapport with women. I've recently met a woman with whom I've developed a deep connection. The difference between waking up next to a woman you care about and some random hookup is tenfold, and I much prefer the latter. Moreover, I have so many damn phone numbers in my book, I have no fucking clue what to do with them all. Some are stale, some I have no interest in, some I have no idea who the fuck they are, others I'd like to take out but have no gd money. I think what I'll try to do is work on the numbers I have by playing some text game. If they are dead numbers anyway, just sitting in my phone, then I have nothing to lose.
Finally, I've been clawing my way out of the friendzone with this one girl. Update/tips for that to come.
Saturday, March 3, 2012
3/2/12 [LR]
Another lay last night. I don't feel like getting into the whole night, but there were a BUNCH of sets beforehand. Last bar of the night, and we're all chilling. I go to the bar and order a drink. Naturally I talk to the girl standing there. Can't say what my opener was. Probably something like, "is this where you get drinks?" Something stupid like that usually works wonders. Anyway, at one point I just put my arm around her and go, "You're my girlfriend now." She goes, "oh yeah?" incredulously. I'm like, "yeah." We start riffing on where we're from. All night I was asking ppl if they were from SF for some reason. She's like, "yeah, I'm from SF." So I tell we're going to have to breakup because I live in San Jose. Push-pull. Push-pull.
At some point, she says something I like, so I reward her by telling her we're getting married. She laches onto this like flies on shit. Next thing I know I'm introducing her to the guys and she's introducing me to her friends. I tell her friends that this is " my future wife." She and her friends are loving it. We're holding hands and talking. She's got this glazed-over type look in her eyes. A couple times I go for the kiss and she pulls back. All I do is reel back, remain non-reactive, then go for the kiss again. Eventually we are making out. It took a couple of start-stops as she would first not kiss me at all, then only on the cheek, then some pecking on the lips, then a quick makeout, then full makeout. This is all over the course of 15 to 20 minutes or so.
At one point, her friend gives me a ring to propose, so I do the whole get down on one knee deal, put the ring on the finger, the whole nine yards. Real suave-like. Also, real chodey, lol. But it fucking works and we're making out. I think at one point she says she's going home but I can't come. I tell her I just want to cuddle all night and not have sex, lol. She sticks to her guns and says I can't come home with her. At one point, and I have no idea why, she's leaving. I think her friends were staying at the bar. So as she's leaving I'm like, "I'll walk you out" or "I'll get you a cab" or some bullshit. A cab pulls up and she gets in. I can see that if I get in, she won't say anything, and if I say something I'll fuck it up. So I get in and shut the door. She gives the cab driver her address. In the cab I'm thinking ("ESCALATE!"), so I start rubbing her leg and shit. She tells me to stop b/c she's ticklish, but I keep at it, reeling back every so often. I think she tells me again we're not having sex and I'm just like, "sure sure. We'll just get naked and go to sleep."
OK, we get to the house. Apparently it's her parent's "vacation house." It's way up on the top of a giant fucking hill, overlooking most of the city. She's like, "be quiet when you walk in because my brother's here." I'm like, "OK." We go in, she sneaks me to the bedroom and talks to her brother. I don't want to turn this into a penthouse forum letter, but I think the next part is relevant to guys dealing with LMR. Remember, I never said we were having sex, and every time she said we weren't, I was just like "yeah, yeah, sure. We'll just cuddle, it's fine."
So while she's out talking to the bro, I get down to my skivvies and jump into bed, make myself comfortable. She gets in and we makeout a bit and I caress her a bit. She says, "OK, time to go to bed." I go, "OK," get on my stomach, and shutdown a minute. Then I throw my arm over her. Then I caress her legs some more, rub her pussy over her panties. I stop and circle around, teasing, teasing, pushing, pulling. I then go in, put my fingers inside. Rub her a bit. She says, "are you gonna lick my pussy?" After that it was elementary. Lick the pussy, feel her breasts, she pulls me up, I take off my boxers, tell her to touch my dick, she puts it right in her cunt.
Couple of other things about the night.
At some point, she says something I like, so I reward her by telling her we're getting married. She laches onto this like flies on shit. Next thing I know I'm introducing her to the guys and she's introducing me to her friends. I tell her friends that this is " my future wife." She and her friends are loving it. We're holding hands and talking. She's got this glazed-over type look in her eyes. A couple times I go for the kiss and she pulls back. All I do is reel back, remain non-reactive, then go for the kiss again. Eventually we are making out. It took a couple of start-stops as she would first not kiss me at all, then only on the cheek, then some pecking on the lips, then a quick makeout, then full makeout. This is all over the course of 15 to 20 minutes or so.
At one point, her friend gives me a ring to propose, so I do the whole get down on one knee deal, put the ring on the finger, the whole nine yards. Real suave-like. Also, real chodey, lol. But it fucking works and we're making out. I think at one point she says she's going home but I can't come. I tell her I just want to cuddle all night and not have sex, lol. She sticks to her guns and says I can't come home with her. At one point, and I have no idea why, she's leaving. I think her friends were staying at the bar. So as she's leaving I'm like, "I'll walk you out" or "I'll get you a cab" or some bullshit. A cab pulls up and she gets in. I can see that if I get in, she won't say anything, and if I say something I'll fuck it up. So I get in and shut the door. She gives the cab driver her address. In the cab I'm thinking ("ESCALATE!"), so I start rubbing her leg and shit. She tells me to stop b/c she's ticklish, but I keep at it, reeling back every so often. I think she tells me again we're not having sex and I'm just like, "sure sure. We'll just get naked and go to sleep."
OK, we get to the house. Apparently it's her parent's "vacation house." It's way up on the top of a giant fucking hill, overlooking most of the city. She's like, "be quiet when you walk in because my brother's here." I'm like, "OK." We go in, she sneaks me to the bedroom and talks to her brother. I don't want to turn this into a penthouse forum letter, but I think the next part is relevant to guys dealing with LMR. Remember, I never said we were having sex, and every time she said we weren't, I was just like "yeah, yeah, sure. We'll just cuddle, it's fine."
So while she's out talking to the bro, I get down to my skivvies and jump into bed, make myself comfortable. She gets in and we makeout a bit and I caress her a bit. She says, "OK, time to go to bed." I go, "OK," get on my stomach, and shutdown a minute. Then I throw my arm over her. Then I caress her legs some more, rub her pussy over her panties. I stop and circle around, teasing, teasing, pushing, pulling. I then go in, put my fingers inside. Rub her a bit. She says, "are you gonna lick my pussy?" After that it was elementary. Lick the pussy, feel her breasts, she pulls me up, I take off my boxers, tell her to touch my dick, she puts it right in her cunt.
Couple of other things about the night.
- After making out for a bit or w/e, she's like, "don't you want my number?" I'm like, "OK, sure," and hand her my phone. LOL, I just don't give a fuck. She's puts in her whole fucking name. I swear, there is no fucking bigger IOI than that right there.
- I hadn't been blown out in a while, and in my other sets that night, towards the end, I was starting to get blown out a bit. Felt fucking GREAT. I just went up to one of the BAS'ers and was like, "I keep getting blown out. This is awesome!"
- SF is such a fucking HOUSE of beautiful women.
- I used the opener "Hey, you are adorable and I just had to come over here and talk to you" a couple of times. Can't tell if it was better than my normal opener. At one point I saw a girl across the bar and literally chased her down to tell her that. She was with a whole bunch of guys and I probably should've iso'd her, but didn't and bounced out of the set when I ran out of what to say. This is the biggest problem with this opener I think, I use it, then I have absolutely nothing to say. Maybe if I try it some more it'll go better. The second time I used the opener, the girl bored me, so I started talking to her friend. I think she got jealous because she came over and was like, "this is my girlfriend" and stole her away.
- Doing the walk of shame at 7 a.m. on a Saturday is somehow less painful.
- They're always skinnier at the bar.
Monday, February 27, 2012
Let the River Take You
This is an FR from Friday night. Rolled up to SF with my not-in-the-game cousin to meet my friend, "Natural," who was in town from MA. Waiting to meet my friend at the bar, drinking with my cuz and opening sets. First couple of sets went fine, but nothing great. So I go open this twoset of Russians. I don't remember the entire interaction, so I am only going to his the high points.
My target was super hot. Turns out they were both visiting from LA. Somehow I guessed their ages exactly, and one even took out her ID to show me. I asked their names and got into deep rapport with the hottie (thought they were both attractive). We talked about where she worked, what she did for fun, etc. They say they are going outside to smoke and I say, all excited, "You smoke!?" I then go out and smoke with them. They're smoking some capri slims or something so I make fun of them. My natural friend shows up and introductions are made. We go inside.
At some point, the girls are talking about the patio out back where you can smoke, so I say, "let's go" and lead my entire group of five people to the back area. I seat them at a table and excuse myself to go to the rest room. When I come back the entire group's moved. "What happened?" I say. Apparently it was reserved, but the group found a table. We all sit down. Two guys who are in-field come into the group, then leave to sarge. At one point, I am sitting across from the obstacle and my cousin is sitting across from the hottie, so I make some excuse about how my cigarette smoke is going in his face and switch seats with him. Then, to my hottie I say, "I just wanted to sit next to you," smile.
At some point, my natural friend gets the deets about the next venue from his bro and we have to bounce. We attempt to bounce the girls, but they beg off, claiming they have to wake up early for a tour of alcatraz. Not sure how I could have pulled, but it's fine. I tell hot Russian that we should hang out either before she leaves, or I'll visit her in LA and we exchange numbers. She gets up to say goodbye to me, and this is where I go for the k close in an alternative world (she was basically asking for it), but don't and hug it out instead. God, as good as I am, I am still such a chode sometimes. We bounce, girls stay, and me and my friend tear up some other club. Think I got another number by the end of the night, but nothing of consequence. The venues kinda sucked, but I had fun anyway.
Pros: Bouncing the girls around, some solid deep rapport to hook the girl, got the number close, defeated obstacles.
Cons: Should be escalating more.
Post-script: At one point I asked my natural friend how he's so good at hitting on women and he said he just has to relax and that I come on too strong. So, definitely something to work on in the future.
My target was super hot. Turns out they were both visiting from LA. Somehow I guessed their ages exactly, and one even took out her ID to show me. I asked their names and got into deep rapport with the hottie (thought they were both attractive). We talked about where she worked, what she did for fun, etc. They say they are going outside to smoke and I say, all excited, "You smoke!?" I then go out and smoke with them. They're smoking some capri slims or something so I make fun of them. My natural friend shows up and introductions are made. We go inside.
At some point, the girls are talking about the patio out back where you can smoke, so I say, "let's go" and lead my entire group of five people to the back area. I seat them at a table and excuse myself to go to the rest room. When I come back the entire group's moved. "What happened?" I say. Apparently it was reserved, but the group found a table. We all sit down. Two guys who are in-field come into the group, then leave to sarge. At one point, I am sitting across from the obstacle and my cousin is sitting across from the hottie, so I make some excuse about how my cigarette smoke is going in his face and switch seats with him. Then, to my hottie I say, "I just wanted to sit next to you," smile.
At some point, my natural friend gets the deets about the next venue from his bro and we have to bounce. We attempt to bounce the girls, but they beg off, claiming they have to wake up early for a tour of alcatraz. Not sure how I could have pulled, but it's fine. I tell hot Russian that we should hang out either before she leaves, or I'll visit her in LA and we exchange numbers. She gets up to say goodbye to me, and this is where I go for the k close in an alternative world (she was basically asking for it), but don't and hug it out instead. God, as good as I am, I am still such a chode sometimes. We bounce, girls stay, and me and my friend tear up some other club. Think I got another number by the end of the night, but nothing of consequence. The venues kinda sucked, but I had fun anyway.
Pros: Bouncing the girls around, some solid deep rapport to hook the girl, got the number close, defeated obstacles.
Cons: Should be escalating more.
Post-script: At one point I asked my natural friend how he's so good at hitting on women and he said he just has to relax and that I come on too strong. So, definitely something to work on in the future.
Thursday, February 16, 2012
Quick Update with mini FR
Have not updated in a bit. Last weekend went out with my Beatrice. It went swimmingly. Was getting texts from a girl in my harem who wanted to fuck, but I wasn't feeling it. She gets too clingy. We'll probably get together this weekend.
Tuesday was Valentine's day. Went out to two dollar Tuesdays with a co-worker, then headed over to a local bar where some people from the internet were meeting up. I met up with them, but there was a terrible girl/guy ratio. One guy looked cool so I said to him, "Hey, you wanna go inside and hit on women?" He agreed. We went inside and derped around a bit. We played some shuffle board. Then I saw a twoset sitting by us so I went and opened them. It went great. My target took to me right away and my new wing got along with his HB. I got my target's number, then we played some shuffleboard. It was a fine time and me and the girl are going out Friday. Before leaving, I texted her: "Who is the coolest guy you met tonight? (Hint: It's NLA)." She responded positively, then later that day asked when we were going out. I guess I make good impressions.
Me and my wing were leaving the bar for the night, when I see some hottie walking alone down the street. Of course I open her. She is receptive and wants me to come inside for a drink with her, so I oblige and both me and my wing head in with her. She heads to the bar to get a drink and we grab a table. I am feeling wasted at this point and there's only one girl, so I tell my wing to take over and I jet.
Second Story: On the Importance of talking to EVERYBODY: There's this cute chick in my office building whom I see occasionally. She has a MAJOR bitch shield up 24/7, but I make it a point to say "hi" to her like I do most people. Anyway, I'm on the elevator yesterday, riding down. She gets on the floor below me. I say, "Hey, how you doin?" A second or two passes and she says, "Oh, are you talking to me?" And I'm like, "Yup. How you doing?" We talk for a little bit, I compliment her on her sweater as she is exiting the elevator. I then go about my day and go to lunch.
I get back from lunch, and apparently this chick came looking for me. I'm on the tenth floor and there are 12 floors in my building. She went up to the 12th, described me, and did the same until she got to my office. I was out of the office at the time, but she left a note with her phone number and office number. She told the guy at the front desk that she works alone. I called her last night and we had lunch today. I time-bridged for drinks later in the week.
Tuesday was Valentine's day. Went out to two dollar Tuesdays with a co-worker, then headed over to a local bar where some people from the internet were meeting up. I met up with them, but there was a terrible girl/guy ratio. One guy looked cool so I said to him, "Hey, you wanna go inside and hit on women?" He agreed. We went inside and derped around a bit. We played some shuffle board. Then I saw a twoset sitting by us so I went and opened them. It went great. My target took to me right away and my new wing got along with his HB. I got my target's number, then we played some shuffleboard. It was a fine time and me and the girl are going out Friday. Before leaving, I texted her: "Who is the coolest guy you met tonight? (Hint: It's NLA)." She responded positively, then later that day asked when we were going out. I guess I make good impressions.
Me and my wing were leaving the bar for the night, when I see some hottie walking alone down the street. Of course I open her. She is receptive and wants me to come inside for a drink with her, so I oblige and both me and my wing head in with her. She heads to the bar to get a drink and we grab a table. I am feeling wasted at this point and there's only one girl, so I tell my wing to take over and I jet.
Second Story: On the Importance of talking to EVERYBODY: There's this cute chick in my office building whom I see occasionally. She has a MAJOR bitch shield up 24/7, but I make it a point to say "hi" to her like I do most people. Anyway, I'm on the elevator yesterday, riding down. She gets on the floor below me. I say, "Hey, how you doin?" A second or two passes and she says, "Oh, are you talking to me?" And I'm like, "Yup. How you doing?" We talk for a little bit, I compliment her on her sweater as she is exiting the elevator. I then go about my day and go to lunch.
I get back from lunch, and apparently this chick came looking for me. I'm on the tenth floor and there are 12 floors in my building. She went up to the 12th, described me, and did the same until she got to my office. I was out of the office at the time, but she left a note with her phone number and office number. She told the guy at the front desk that she works alone. I called her last night and we had lunch today. I time-bridged for drinks later in the week.
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
Some [FRs] from the weekend
Was sick and bogged down at work, so didn't go out much last week. However, I did go out Friday and Saturday. Here are those FRs.
Friday - Went out with coworkers beforehand. There was a hot twoset behind us. I noticed them walking in, then ignored them to talk to my coworkers and build up social proof. They were both sitting facing the door and I was sitting with my back towards them. At one point I turned around and said something along the lines of, "can you two please keep it down back there, we're trying to talk!" Of course I said it with a big, shit-eating grin and they loved it, hooking right away. I talked for them a bit before turning my attention back to my group. I later opened them again. I was giving one of the girls (Russian) some kino, but she was not digging it. The other one was into me, but I didn't make my move because I am uncomfortable sarging in the spotlight of coworkers. I would have invited them to sit with us, but logistics were awful.
When everyone was calling it a night at 8:00, I decided to go and hit up a local bar. I went in and ordered a few drinks and tried to flirt with the bartender a little. Sent out a coupla pings to friends. One hit, so we went next door to another place I know (Fred's). Hung around, but not much was going on. My friend wanted to go to a dive bar, so we bounced there. Inside it was crowded. I went to the bathroom and on the way so a girl I number closed before Thanksgiving. Talked with her, showed her the pictures I had on my phone of us, and told her I would call her later. My friend and I bounced, and that was that. Talked to a couple of other girls here and there, but nothing noteworthy.
Saturday - Friend (girl)'s birthday party. Meet up her house about nine and start drinking. They are doing shots and eventually get wasted. We hang out there for a bit then head out to a club. The place is CRACKIN with HB 9s and 8s all over the place. I am still uncomfortable approaching when the hot girl-rate is so high. At one point I am in the patio-area smoking. I notice that where I am standing there is a bunch of guys and on the other side of the space there are a bunch of girls. It's like a high school dance. While I am thinking, a cutie comes up to me and asks for a cigarette. I give her a look, but she stays. I tell her that I might give her a butt if she did something cool/funny. She's like, "what?" I say, "what are you good at?" She thinks about it, but says, "nothing." Then her eyes light up and she says, "oooh. I know!" She then bends her thumbs backwards and says, "see?" I'm like, "wtf?!" I kino her a bit and of course make fun of her a little. I give her a cigarette and light it. She calls me a gentleman. We talk for a little big longer before she bounces.
After this interaction I'm thinking, "wtf am I doing?" I walk across the space to two gals who look as though they are waiting to be opened. I move in and say, "it's like a high school dance in here with girls on one side and guys on the other." They laugh and are opened. We talk a bit, with me giving them shit and them complimenting me ("You don't look like a smoker. You have a good complexion and look clean"). I bounce inside to look for my way-too drunk friend to make sure she's not getting me into trouble.
Two things about two of the girls in the group I'm with. One is the birthday girl and is constantly trying to get into my pants, but I LJBF'd her. She is way too drunk tonight. Another is a cute girl who only likes buff black guys. I am not a buff black guy, but I get the feeling that she has a thing for me, so I flirt with her. She buys me a drink at one point in the night with very little prompting. Later in the night, she is probably too drunk and clinging all over me, holding my hand, all the signs. I try to kiss her but get the cheek twice. Being unreactive I just don't give a fuck, but it was fun.
Later, I go back outside to the dance floor and reopen the twoset from earlier. I do some grinding with them and cop a feel or two off of them. My interest level isn't high as they are both 40-somethings, but they've got great bodies and one is French while the other is Brazilian. I attempt to number close the French gal (even though the Brazilian would've been easier to close) and get the "I'll take yours." So I put it in and press "send." I then hand her phone back and go to take out mine. She ends the call before I get to my phone and says, "I'll call you." Welp, I've got to look for my friends and don't have time to fuck with her, so I peace.
At one point a wing from seddit shows up. I get separated from my other friends, so we bounce to another bar (Fred's again). The place is packed and there are two separate lines, both about 20 people deep. We walk past the front, see that it's hopeless (getting close to bar time) and darkenergizerbunny says, "why don't we just walk in?" "Sure," I say. "We've got to just walk right up like we own the place." So I go to the front. I see a bouncer we know, walk right up to him and say, "we were outside smoking." He says, "hey man." We are on the other side of the velvet rope and there are two lines on either side of us. He's letting a group of girls in. One says something about showing her tits, so I vibe with the bouncer about that a bit. When he turns to face me again, I make a move to go in and he opens the velvet rope. I point to my wing and say, "this guy's with me." We go in. Place is packed. I make a bee-line for the back bar.
Now, I can't say exactly what happened, other than to say that I always open a set at the bar, if available. This time is no different. I find an empty space at the bar (probably talking to girls on my way in) and say something to a cutie next to me. She is very receptive, so we start to talking. I'm not even sure about what, but I one point I remember a line I read on seddit that I want to give a try. I say, "Listen, I'm not gay and I don't have a girlfriend or anything, I just suck at flirting and I think you are cute. Thought I'd throw that out there." We then go back to talking. I can tell in her face when I tell her that she's intrigued and it works. RIGHT ON! Wish I could remember who I got the line from. I end up hanging out with this girl for the rest of the night. Her friend (cousin) kind of hates me and seems to be trying to get rid of me, but this girl is dragging me around by holding my hand. At some point the lights come on and we are getting separated in the crowd. I take out my phone, put it onto a new contact page and put it in her hand. I then lose her in the crowd. I've never been so worried. I thought I might never see my phone again.
I walk outside with my wing. She's right there greeting me as I walk out the door and hands me my phone. "If you can remember my name, call me."
Later that night I text two girls (no idea what her name was). Hers was the first response (the other girl texted, "who the fuck are you?" lol).
Friday - Went out with coworkers beforehand. There was a hot twoset behind us. I noticed them walking in, then ignored them to talk to my coworkers and build up social proof. They were both sitting facing the door and I was sitting with my back towards them. At one point I turned around and said something along the lines of, "can you two please keep it down back there, we're trying to talk!" Of course I said it with a big, shit-eating grin and they loved it, hooking right away. I talked for them a bit before turning my attention back to my group. I later opened them again. I was giving one of the girls (Russian) some kino, but she was not digging it. The other one was into me, but I didn't make my move because I am uncomfortable sarging in the spotlight of coworkers. I would have invited them to sit with us, but logistics were awful.
When everyone was calling it a night at 8:00, I decided to go and hit up a local bar. I went in and ordered a few drinks and tried to flirt with the bartender a little. Sent out a coupla pings to friends. One hit, so we went next door to another place I know (Fred's). Hung around, but not much was going on. My friend wanted to go to a dive bar, so we bounced there. Inside it was crowded. I went to the bathroom and on the way so a girl I number closed before Thanksgiving. Talked with her, showed her the pictures I had on my phone of us, and told her I would call her later. My friend and I bounced, and that was that. Talked to a couple of other girls here and there, but nothing noteworthy.
Saturday - Friend (girl)'s birthday party. Meet up her house about nine and start drinking. They are doing shots and eventually get wasted. We hang out there for a bit then head out to a club. The place is CRACKIN with HB 9s and 8s all over the place. I am still uncomfortable approaching when the hot girl-rate is so high. At one point I am in the patio-area smoking. I notice that where I am standing there is a bunch of guys and on the other side of the space there are a bunch of girls. It's like a high school dance. While I am thinking, a cutie comes up to me and asks for a cigarette. I give her a look, but she stays. I tell her that I might give her a butt if she did something cool/funny. She's like, "what?" I say, "what are you good at?" She thinks about it, but says, "nothing." Then her eyes light up and she says, "oooh. I know!" She then bends her thumbs backwards and says, "see?" I'm like, "wtf?!" I kino her a bit and of course make fun of her a little. I give her a cigarette and light it. She calls me a gentleman. We talk for a little big longer before she bounces.
After this interaction I'm thinking, "wtf am I doing?" I walk across the space to two gals who look as though they are waiting to be opened. I move in and say, "it's like a high school dance in here with girls on one side and guys on the other." They laugh and are opened. We talk a bit, with me giving them shit and them complimenting me ("You don't look like a smoker. You have a good complexion and look clean"). I bounce inside to look for my way-too drunk friend to make sure she's not getting me into trouble.
Two things about two of the girls in the group I'm with. One is the birthday girl and is constantly trying to get into my pants, but I LJBF'd her. She is way too drunk tonight. Another is a cute girl who only likes buff black guys. I am not a buff black guy, but I get the feeling that she has a thing for me, so I flirt with her. She buys me a drink at one point in the night with very little prompting. Later in the night, she is probably too drunk and clinging all over me, holding my hand, all the signs. I try to kiss her but get the cheek twice. Being unreactive I just don't give a fuck, but it was fun.
Later, I go back outside to the dance floor and reopen the twoset from earlier. I do some grinding with them and cop a feel or two off of them. My interest level isn't high as they are both 40-somethings, but they've got great bodies and one is French while the other is Brazilian. I attempt to number close the French gal (even though the Brazilian would've been easier to close) and get the "I'll take yours." So I put it in and press "send." I then hand her phone back and go to take out mine. She ends the call before I get to my phone and says, "I'll call you." Welp, I've got to look for my friends and don't have time to fuck with her, so I peace.
At one point a wing from seddit shows up. I get separated from my other friends, so we bounce to another bar (Fred's again). The place is packed and there are two separate lines, both about 20 people deep. We walk past the front, see that it's hopeless (getting close to bar time) and darkenergizerbunny says, "why don't we just walk in?" "Sure," I say. "We've got to just walk right up like we own the place." So I go to the front. I see a bouncer we know, walk right up to him and say, "we were outside smoking." He says, "hey man." We are on the other side of the velvet rope and there are two lines on either side of us. He's letting a group of girls in. One says something about showing her tits, so I vibe with the bouncer about that a bit. When he turns to face me again, I make a move to go in and he opens the velvet rope. I point to my wing and say, "this guy's with me." We go in. Place is packed. I make a bee-line for the back bar.
Now, I can't say exactly what happened, other than to say that I always open a set at the bar, if available. This time is no different. I find an empty space at the bar (probably talking to girls on my way in) and say something to a cutie next to me. She is very receptive, so we start to talking. I'm not even sure about what, but I one point I remember a line I read on seddit that I want to give a try. I say, "Listen, I'm not gay and I don't have a girlfriend or anything, I just suck at flirting and I think you are cute. Thought I'd throw that out there." We then go back to talking. I can tell in her face when I tell her that she's intrigued and it works. RIGHT ON! Wish I could remember who I got the line from. I end up hanging out with this girl for the rest of the night. Her friend (cousin) kind of hates me and seems to be trying to get rid of me, but this girl is dragging me around by holding my hand. At some point the lights come on and we are getting separated in the crowd. I take out my phone, put it onto a new contact page and put it in her hand. I then lose her in the crowd. I've never been so worried. I thought I might never see my phone again.
I walk outside with my wing. She's right there greeting me as I walk out the door and hands me my phone. "If you can remember my name, call me."
Later that night I text two girls (no idea what her name was). Hers was the first response (the other girl texted, "who the fuck are you?" lol).
Sunday, November 27, 2011
NLA Social Network is Working [FR]
Scene: Saturday night. Not wanting to go out, but looking because I did not go out the night before. Called up a couple of BAS'ers, but they were with family/unavailable. About 6pm I get two texts from two separate girls.
The first girl invited me to a concert for some band. I googled the band and it was some death metal shit. I was not interested. The second girl invited me to some party. "Jersey Shore" theme. Said it starts at 9:30. I waited an hour and a half and texted both girls back. To the first I said, "Can't make it tonight." To the second I said, "Sounds cool. Where is it?" She gave me the address and I got ready.
The FR Party started at 9:30, so I planned on getting there about ten. I got there at 10:30. As soon as I get to the address, I see three girls standing outside. So what do I do? I talk to them, dummy! I say, "Is this where the fistpumping happens?" (remember, Jersey Shore). They laugh, so I talk some shit. There's a girl standing in my way, so I make a big deal like she's in my way to her friends. Eventually, they get her to move and I go in.
The Party I enter and it's a tiny house party (studio apartment). Turns out its some guy's birthday. I see the girl who invited me and she smiles, comes right up to me and says, "You came!" I put my six-pack in the fridge (byob) and get to drinking. It's a pretty nice party. The venue is small, but there are a bunch of cute girls. My invitor introduces me to people, so I am not wont for conversation. I don't stick to the chick who invited me and instead spread my love around. I talk to everyone at the party at some point (~25 people). A twoset of hotties come in so I open them. Nothing stuck, but I gave them shit the whole night (e.g., "You guys are the life of the party! Came in and sat down right away. You guys need to chill it out.").
It becomes a blur at this point. People are in and out, but I establish myself as alpha. Some guy is drunk as shit and tries starting shit with me, but I defuse him and befriend him. I am talking to everyone and having a blast. Some guy tries taking my beer, but I persuade him not to. A twoset of hotties (another one) comes in, and I talk to them a lot. One of the girls is super cute and I am pretty sure the other is a lesbian. I facebook close them both. God, I want the hot one, but she said she has a boyfriend. The HB lesbian said they were lovers or some shit when I first opened them, but I was nonreactive and just plowed.
One of the girls I saw earlier in the night (one of the girls from outside that I first encountered) is leaving, so I engage her in conversation. She's with her friend, so I talk to them both, but focus on the hottie. Things are going swimmingly, so I say, "we should hang out some time." This is my can't lose number close. I wait for her to respond with, "yes." Her friend interrupts and there's some chit-chat in between, but I stay persistent and she agrees. I say, "Great! Then you should give me your number." I get my "new contact" screen up and hand her my phone. She puts her shit in there and I call her. She entered it wrong the first time, so we fix it. She put in her first and last name without provocation (serious IOI). I make some more chitchat and say goodbye. I texted her the next morning and got a good response (basically, made fun of her last name).
As the party's winding down, it's clear that the girl who invited me wants to go home with me. I don't fuck it up, act cool and take her home. Yes players, it's a lay report. Take her home the next morning and hit the gym. I knew today would be a good day :)
Lastly, on my way to the party (forgot this), I got a text from a girl. "What are you up to buddy, wanna drink?" Lol, I LOVE social game. Remember to talk to everyone and the situations will present themselves. Be true to yourself, future players.
The first girl invited me to a concert for some band. I googled the band and it was some death metal shit. I was not interested. The second girl invited me to some party. "Jersey Shore" theme. Said it starts at 9:30. I waited an hour and a half and texted both girls back. To the first I said, "Can't make it tonight." To the second I said, "Sounds cool. Where is it?" She gave me the address and I got ready.
The FR Party started at 9:30, so I planned on getting there about ten. I got there at 10:30. As soon as I get to the address, I see three girls standing outside. So what do I do? I talk to them, dummy! I say, "Is this where the fistpumping happens?" (remember, Jersey Shore). They laugh, so I talk some shit. There's a girl standing in my way, so I make a big deal like she's in my way to her friends. Eventually, they get her to move and I go in.
The Party I enter and it's a tiny house party (studio apartment). Turns out its some guy's birthday. I see the girl who invited me and she smiles, comes right up to me and says, "You came!" I put my six-pack in the fridge (byob) and get to drinking. It's a pretty nice party. The venue is small, but there are a bunch of cute girls. My invitor introduces me to people, so I am not wont for conversation. I don't stick to the chick who invited me and instead spread my love around. I talk to everyone at the party at some point (~25 people). A twoset of hotties come in so I open them. Nothing stuck, but I gave them shit the whole night (e.g., "You guys are the life of the party! Came in and sat down right away. You guys need to chill it out.").
It becomes a blur at this point. People are in and out, but I establish myself as alpha. Some guy is drunk as shit and tries starting shit with me, but I defuse him and befriend him. I am talking to everyone and having a blast. Some guy tries taking my beer, but I persuade him not to. A twoset of hotties (another one) comes in, and I talk to them a lot. One of the girls is super cute and I am pretty sure the other is a lesbian. I facebook close them both. God, I want the hot one, but she said she has a boyfriend. The HB lesbian said they were lovers or some shit when I first opened them, but I was nonreactive and just plowed.
One of the girls I saw earlier in the night (one of the girls from outside that I first encountered) is leaving, so I engage her in conversation. She's with her friend, so I talk to them both, but focus on the hottie. Things are going swimmingly, so I say, "we should hang out some time." This is my can't lose number close. I wait for her to respond with, "yes." Her friend interrupts and there's some chit-chat in between, but I stay persistent and she agrees. I say, "Great! Then you should give me your number." I get my "new contact" screen up and hand her my phone. She puts her shit in there and I call her. She entered it wrong the first time, so we fix it. She put in her first and last name without provocation (serious IOI). I make some more chitchat and say goodbye. I texted her the next morning and got a good response (basically, made fun of her last name).
As the party's winding down, it's clear that the girl who invited me wants to go home with me. I don't fuck it up, act cool and take her home. Yes players, it's a lay report. Take her home the next morning and hit the gym. I knew today would be a good day :)
Lastly, on my way to the party (forgot this), I got a text from a girl. "What are you up to buddy, wanna drink?" Lol, I LOVE social game. Remember to talk to everyone and the situations will present themselves. Be true to yourself, future players.
Tuesday, October 11, 2011
10/7/11 FR
Met up with a few BAS guys about 11p on Friday night. Brought out a female friend who promised to wing.
First set: Started the night talking to the bartender who I had met the previous night. Social proof. Also, at the first bar someone had put their foot through the window, so this was conversation material all night (got the story from the bouncer. Social proof x2). A girl with crutches sits next to me. Talk about how it must be tough to walk around a bar with those. Talk about feelings of going stir crazy, sitting at home. I ask her to dance (lol). It's my warmup set.
Sets Two through Six: We bounce to more of a club-type atmosphere. There's a girl at the front ordering a drink. I tease her a bit and ask her what she'd do if I got a drink first. She says punch me. I tease her for quite a bit and there's definite attraction there. I tell her about the bar in the back. She makes a move to go, but I hesitate so she stays. I bounce a couple minutes later and tell her I'll "do this" (cheesy smile) if I get my drink before her.
Bounce to bar in back where I know bartender. Get drink quickly. Probably talk to girls. One of my favorite bar openers is, "I'm not stealing your spot, just trying to get a drink." Then I open. I go to the bathroom after my drink and see the girl from above. I raise my drink and smile. She laughs.
Bounce outside. Opening sets like mad. Open a fourset of grenades. I hook into the group. I know I hook because I tell the stupidest joke in the world and the girl laughs. Here's the joke: "Why did the posh chicken cross the road? To get to the $10,000 of course!" Lol, it was that bad. I bounce out of the set and into another.
I ask these two girls for a light (they're talking to a guy). One girl says "no." I look at her incredulously. The other says, "I have one." Pulls it out of her cleavage. I give her shit. I give the other girl shit for being a bitch. Now I'm giving them both shit. I'm rocking back and forth and the guy who was talking to them bounces. I hook into the set and keep throwing in FTCs. The girl with the lighter says it's her b-day week. I don't believe her (I NEVER believe them). She pulls out her ID from her cleavage. MAN, do I give her shit for that. We talk about what else is hidden down there. Would've been a great time to start kino. Eventually the girls bounce. I give them a recommendation of the right bartender to get drinks from. When I see them later they are grateful. Turned a lost set (guy trying to pick them up, bitch shields WAY up), into a semi-success.
Sitting, I see a cute girl. I tell one of the BAS'ers to open her. He says, "not my type." I go in. It's a mixed set. I open with "You girls look so cool and like you're having so much fun, I just had to come over and talk to you." I'm in. While talking to them, come to find out the girl who I thought was really cute has a boyfriend (who tried to blow me out but whom I then befriended.). I talk to them for a bit about #occupywallstreet, then bounce because neither of the other options were that attractive. One interesting thing about this set is that I was kinoing one girl on the shoulder and she goes, "you keep touching me on the shoulder." I go, "yup."
Last set of the venue, one of my wings was in a threeset. I go in to wing. They're talking sign language. I know two things, "I hate you" and "I love you." I show one girl. I think she makes a smart-ass remark while I'm showing her, so I show her "I hate you first." It gets a laugh. We start talking about sign cusses. This gets into a convo about Italian cusses. I teach this one girl a few. They bounce but the girl I teach keeps bringing her friends to me. This one girl she brings gives me the DDB eyes. We talk and like an idiot, I do not escalate. She's ready to be kissed but I don't. We get to talking about her name and we make it a game like Rumplestilskin. I say, "If I get it right, you have to go home with me. If not," I don't remember what the if not was. She agrees and we are haggling over the rules of the game (she proposes three guesses, I say five. She says I've already taken two), when her friend comes and swoops her away. I don't number close because all we had was mere attraction. I should've fucking kissed her. We venue bounce.
Set Seven: Last set of the night was most successful. I open the first set I see of two hot, amazonian women and one dude. I get them laughing. They like me. The dude wings me to hook me up with one of the girls (I got the impression he was dating the other one). I keep going back to this set throughout the night and eventually the HB Amazon isolates herself for me and we go into rapport. I number close when I should have kiss closed. Must remember to kiss close more. For more in depth account of this set, check out the 100sets link to the right.
Takeaway: ESCALATE ESCALATE ESCALATE. Friend of mine recently returned from an RSD mini-boot. He says that they teach that you should k-close within the first twenty minutes. I should be constantly escalating so that I get to this point.
First set: Started the night talking to the bartender who I had met the previous night. Social proof. Also, at the first bar someone had put their foot through the window, so this was conversation material all night (got the story from the bouncer. Social proof x2). A girl with crutches sits next to me. Talk about how it must be tough to walk around a bar with those. Talk about feelings of going stir crazy, sitting at home. I ask her to dance (lol). It's my warmup set.
Sets Two through Six: We bounce to more of a club-type atmosphere. There's a girl at the front ordering a drink. I tease her a bit and ask her what she'd do if I got a drink first. She says punch me. I tease her for quite a bit and there's definite attraction there. I tell her about the bar in the back. She makes a move to go, but I hesitate so she stays. I bounce a couple minutes later and tell her I'll "do this" (cheesy smile) if I get my drink before her.
Bounce to bar in back where I know bartender. Get drink quickly. Probably talk to girls. One of my favorite bar openers is, "I'm not stealing your spot, just trying to get a drink." Then I open. I go to the bathroom after my drink and see the girl from above. I raise my drink and smile. She laughs.
Bounce outside. Opening sets like mad. Open a fourset of grenades. I hook into the group. I know I hook because I tell the stupidest joke in the world and the girl laughs. Here's the joke: "Why did the posh chicken cross the road? To get to the $10,000 of course!" Lol, it was that bad. I bounce out of the set and into another.
I ask these two girls for a light (they're talking to a guy). One girl says "no." I look at her incredulously. The other says, "I have one." Pulls it out of her cleavage. I give her shit. I give the other girl shit for being a bitch. Now I'm giving them both shit. I'm rocking back and forth and the guy who was talking to them bounces. I hook into the set and keep throwing in FTCs. The girl with the lighter says it's her b-day week. I don't believe her (I NEVER believe them). She pulls out her ID from her cleavage. MAN, do I give her shit for that. We talk about what else is hidden down there. Would've been a great time to start kino. Eventually the girls bounce. I give them a recommendation of the right bartender to get drinks from. When I see them later they are grateful. Turned a lost set (guy trying to pick them up, bitch shields WAY up), into a semi-success.
Sitting, I see a cute girl. I tell one of the BAS'ers to open her. He says, "not my type." I go in. It's a mixed set. I open with "You girls look so cool and like you're having so much fun, I just had to come over and talk to you." I'm in. While talking to them, come to find out the girl who I thought was really cute has a boyfriend (who tried to blow me out but whom I then befriended.). I talk to them for a bit about #occupywallstreet, then bounce because neither of the other options were that attractive. One interesting thing about this set is that I was kinoing one girl on the shoulder and she goes, "you keep touching me on the shoulder." I go, "yup."
Last set of the venue, one of my wings was in a threeset. I go in to wing. They're talking sign language. I know two things, "I hate you" and "I love you." I show one girl. I think she makes a smart-ass remark while I'm showing her, so I show her "I hate you first." It gets a laugh. We start talking about sign cusses. This gets into a convo about Italian cusses. I teach this one girl a few. They bounce but the girl I teach keeps bringing her friends to me. This one girl she brings gives me the DDB eyes. We talk and like an idiot, I do not escalate. She's ready to be kissed but I don't. We get to talking about her name and we make it a game like Rumplestilskin. I say, "If I get it right, you have to go home with me. If not," I don't remember what the if not was. She agrees and we are haggling over the rules of the game (she proposes three guesses, I say five. She says I've already taken two), when her friend comes and swoops her away. I don't number close because all we had was mere attraction. I should've fucking kissed her. We venue bounce.
Set Seven: Last set of the night was most successful. I open the first set I see of two hot, amazonian women and one dude. I get them laughing. They like me. The dude wings me to hook me up with one of the girls (I got the impression he was dating the other one). I keep going back to this set throughout the night and eventually the HB Amazon isolates herself for me and we go into rapport. I number close when I should have kiss closed. Must remember to kiss close more. For more in depth account of this set, check out the 100sets link to the right.
Takeaway: ESCALATE ESCALATE ESCALATE. Friend of mine recently returned from an RSD mini-boot. He says that they teach that you should k-close within the first twenty minutes. I should be constantly escalating so that I get to this point.
Wednesday, August 24, 2011
8/24/11 Reflection
I've been taking it easy this week. Went out Saturday and had a great time. Hit up DTSJ with my friend from work and just killed it at the bar. #closed two girls, met a burgeoning PUA, made friends with the bouncer, and the bartender bought me a drink. It was rely a tour du force of PUA. Of course, I was pretty drunk by the end, but hopefully I can carry some of that momentum with me in the coming days.
Sunday I worked out and hung with a friend, so no gaming. However, I did use my social skills to get him in for free (when he would usually have to pay $10). Monday I went to the gym, talked to the girl I like there a little bit, noticed some wayward glances my way, then went home and did laundry. Tuesday I worked late, went to a bar with cheap food to eat and flirted with the girl who works there, then went to play trivia. Flirted a little with the bartender at trivia. Went home even though wings were going out.
For some reason, I really don't feel like going out this week. Plus I am pretty broke, so that puts a dampen on things. I am having fun though, and waking up feeling refreshed and recharged. I am a little down because on Monday I texted one of my number closes and got no response. Perhaps I will call her this weekend using some of the methods suggested by the ABCs of Attraction guys (who just did a AMA on seddit).
Friday I am thinking about going to SF to sarge with Vince Kelvin. Have not decided yet, though. Can probably only go out one day this week. Saturday I will sell some law books and hopefully make it to the next pay check.
CHECK IN: Goals are going well. Although the house is still a mess, I number-closed two girls last week and had tons of solid sets. I am talking to everyone and being more sociable. My inner game is making strides and I feel confident and self-fulfilled. I am improving :)
Sunday I worked out and hung with a friend, so no gaming. However, I did use my social skills to get him in for free (when he would usually have to pay $10). Monday I went to the gym, talked to the girl I like there a little bit, noticed some wayward glances my way, then went home and did laundry. Tuesday I worked late, went to a bar with cheap food to eat and flirted with the girl who works there, then went to play trivia. Flirted a little with the bartender at trivia. Went home even though wings were going out.
For some reason, I really don't feel like going out this week. Plus I am pretty broke, so that puts a dampen on things. I am having fun though, and waking up feeling refreshed and recharged. I am a little down because on Monday I texted one of my number closes and got no response. Perhaps I will call her this weekend using some of the methods suggested by the ABCs of Attraction guys (who just did a AMA on seddit).
Friday I am thinking about going to SF to sarge with Vince Kelvin. Have not decided yet, though. Can probably only go out one day this week. Saturday I will sell some law books and hopefully make it to the next pay check.
CHECK IN: Goals are going well. Although the house is still a mess, I number-closed two girls last week and had tons of solid sets. I am talking to everyone and being more sociable. My inner game is making strides and I feel confident and self-fulfilled. I am improving :)
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