Monday, February 27, 2012

Let the River Take You

This is an FR from Friday night.  Rolled up to SF with my not-in-the-game cousin to meet my friend, "Natural," who was in town from MA.  Waiting to meet my friend at the bar, drinking with my cuz and opening sets.  First couple of sets went fine, but nothing great.  So I go open this twoset of Russians.  I don't remember the entire interaction, so I am only going to his the high points.

My target was super hot.  Turns out they were both visiting from LA.  Somehow I guessed their ages exactly, and one even took out her ID to show me.  I asked their names and got into deep rapport with the hottie (thought they were both attractive).  We talked about where she worked, what she did for fun, etc.  They say they are going outside to smoke and I say, all excited, "You smoke!?"  I then go out and smoke with them.  They're smoking some capri slims or something so I make fun of them.  My natural friend shows up and introductions are made.  We go inside.

At some point, the girls are talking about the patio out back where you can smoke, so I say, "let's go" and lead my entire group of five people to the back area.  I seat them at a table and excuse myself to go to the rest room.  When I come back the entire group's moved.  "What happened?" I say.  Apparently it was reserved, but the group found a table.  We all sit down.  Two guys who are in-field come into the group, then leave to sarge.  At one point, I am sitting across from the obstacle and my cousin is sitting across from the hottie, so I make some excuse about how my cigarette smoke is going in his face and switch seats with him.  Then, to my hottie I say, "I just wanted to sit next to you," smile.

At some point, my natural friend gets the deets about the next venue from his bro and we have to bounce.  We attempt to bounce the girls, but they beg off, claiming they have to wake up early for a tour of alcatraz.  Not sure how I could have pulled, but it's fine.  I tell hot Russian that we should hang out either before she leaves, or I'll visit her in LA and we exchange numbers.  She gets up to say goodbye to me, and this is where I go for the k close in an alternative world (she was basically asking for it), but don't and hug it out instead.  God, as good as I am, I am still such a chode sometimes.  We bounce, girls stay, and me and my friend tear up some other club.  Think I got another number by the end of the night, but nothing of consequence.  The venues kinda sucked, but I had fun anyway.

Pros:  Bouncing the girls around, some solid deep rapport to hook the girl, got the number close, defeated obstacles.

Cons:  Should be escalating more.

Post-script:  At one point I asked my natural friend how he's so good at hitting on women and he said he just has to relax and that I come on too strong.  So, definitely something to work on in the future.

Thursday, February 23, 2012

2/23/12 Update

So yesterday, I went out to lunch with stalker chick from two posts again.  I'm really amping up the sexual conversation and did a little deep rapport by talking about losing our virginities.  Later, she said, "we need to have a serious talk."  Put it off for 20 minutes.  "I'm not looking for anything but friendship.  I am not in a mental state for anything else."  I think she then justified herself by saying, "maybe if I'm drunk...."  I jumped in and said, "That's fine, but I make out with my friends."  She said, "OK, maybe we'll dry hump."  Lol.  Girl is mine, all I need to do is escalate.

Also talked to the chick from sushi and karaoke yesterday.  Called her on the phone in the morning but logistics were all off.  She said she would call me back, but by 10 at night had not.  Big boo-boo in my book.  I get a couple of texts from her (which end up being from the other night).  I respond with "Is that you calling me back?"  She calls 10 to 20 mins later, apparently drunk and on her way to her car, lol.  Anyway, the girl is cool and I'd like to get her in rotation.  Told her that Thursday's no good and asked if she could do Sat instead (I've got a friend's bday dinner to attend).  She said, "I might be going to New York for the weekend."  Lol, wut.  Apparently this girl IS adventurous.  Excellent.

OK brothers, that's it for now.  I've got to work on my day game some more.  Today I saw this hot dancer come in with a group of friends when I was eating lunch.  She was just my type but I did not open.  When I was leaving she was sitting at a table outside.  My opener should've been, "Excuse, but you are so cute.  I just had to come say hello to you."  Ah well.  You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.  I've also been talking to this cute Mexican chick in my office building with a big rack.  I've got to find a way to close that deal.  Now that I think about it, I talk and flirt with every.  Damn.  Girl.  in my office building.  I love flirting and it's definitely something I've improved these last few months.

So yeah, goals are to improv day game, close the two girls I'm working on and get them into rotation ASAP.  Manana hang with an old friend in the city.  Perhaps I'll get some numbers.

One last thing.  Went out Fat Tuesday.  Opened tons of sets.  At one point I used the perfect opener at a seated two-set:  "Can I take this seat?"  "Sure."  Sit.  Set went well.  I number closed some chick, but don't think I'll call her.  It was end of the night close and I was a little wasted.  Tonight it's early bed for me.

Sunday, February 19, 2012

Weekend Report

Had a blast this weekend.  Friday I went out with chick I met on V-Day.  Hit up sushi place and had awesome sushi.  100 bucks later, I told her she was buying drinks at the bar.  Went to the karaoke bar afterwards.  We are sitting down and within 10 minutes we are making out.  At some point I try to put her hand on my dick, but she's not having it.  She said she doesn't put out on a first date.  I ignored and plowed, but it was a nonstarter.  It's fine as I like this chick, and I timebridged for a fuck on our next date.  At the karaoke place, we were owning it and were basically the coolest people there/having the most fun.  At one point, a song came on that is on my list of songs (I have a karaoke list), so my girl tells me to go up.  I do and some cute asian girl comes up too (it was her song).  Fuck it, we sing it together and have a fucking blast.

Saturday, had to meet my fuck buddy, but wanted to sarge too, so I sent up the bat signal.  Meet at the bar.  I'm the first one there and I open a two-set of fatties to get the juices flowing.  One community guy shows up whom I never met, so we shoot the shit until my FWB shows up.  I tell her that we're going to help him hit on girls.  Go to another bar that is having dubstep night.  Grab a couple of PBRs and KILL the dance floor.  I'm talking to every fucking girl in the establishment.  There's this really cute black HB with a hot friend who I am talking to the whole time.  Black girl I can tell is feeling me, but I've got FWB with me so I try to pawn her off on the community guy.  Don't think it went well.  Either way we had a complete BLAST, totally owned the place and talked to every set in there.

Bounce to the next bar.  I'm opening every set I see and FWB gets pissed, so I have to calm her down.  At one point she goes to the bathroom and I am talking to these two seated hottie sisters.  One of them starts talking about her tits, saying how they are nice.  So I tell her they look nice and start grabbing them.  I then tell them we should makeout before my FWB gets back, but no going.  Again, I opened every fucking set in there like it was my business.  No going for number closes because I have a few spinning plates right now.

At some point my FWB and I bounce to my office where we fuck overlooking the city.  I then take her home for more super happy fun times.  She jets at 4am and I am a complete ass to her because I am not a morning person at all.  She texts me later in the day, "Sorry for being mean.  I was just frustrated.  Sex in yr office was hot."

I am growing as a person and a player and have improved so much in the short time I've been in the game.  I have learned that I can be a total asshole and still get away with it.  I've also begun to believe that I am the party and that people are genuinely interested in talking to me / hanging out with me.  I've also started reading "How to Win Friends and Influence People."  The book is pure gold.  One thing I did not do this weekend that I tried to do was get my Beatrice out for dinner on Sunday.  I called her on Saturday and no answer.  I then texted her Sunday, but she's ignoring me.  I'm not letting that one go.

Goals for next week are to bang the asian cutie from V-Day and go out with HB black girl who tracked me down (from last post).  Saturday, my natural friend is in town from the other coast so we'll probably tear some shit up.  It's getting busy, but that's a good thing.  Soon I am going to have to shift focus on some work stuff, so hopefully I can get a couple of plates spinning so I can really focus on what I need to do.

I have so many goals and so much growth I've yet to see in myself.  However, I realize that I've grown a lot since last winter when I was basically crying into my beer every night.  I am a much better socializer now and want to continue to improve by growing my harem, making more friends, extending my social network, and completing my work goals.

Keep playin' playas.

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Quick Update with mini FR

Have not updated in a bit.  Last weekend went out with my Beatrice.  It went swimmingly.  Was getting texts from a girl in my harem who wanted to fuck, but I wasn't feeling it.  She gets too clingy.  We'll probably get together this weekend.

Tuesday was Valentine's day.  Went out to two dollar Tuesdays with a co-worker, then headed over to a local bar where some people from the internet were meeting up.  I met up with them, but there was a terrible girl/guy ratio.  One guy looked cool so I said to him, "Hey, you wanna go inside and hit on women?"  He agreed.  We went inside and derped around a bit.  We played some shuffle board.  Then I saw a twoset sitting by us so I went and opened them.  It went great.  My target took to me right away and my new wing got along with his HB.  I got my target's number, then we played some shuffleboard.  It was a fine time and me and the girl are going out Friday.  Before leaving, I texted her: "Who is the coolest guy you met tonight?  (Hint: It's NLA)."  She responded positively, then later that day asked when we were going out.  I guess I make good impressions.

Me and my wing were leaving the bar for the night, when I see some hottie walking alone down the street.  Of course I open her.  She is receptive and wants me to come inside for a drink with her, so I oblige and both me and my wing head in with her.  She heads to the bar to get a drink and we grab a table.  I am feeling wasted at this point and there's only one girl, so I tell my wing to take over and I jet.

Second Story: On the Importance of talking to EVERYBODY:  There's this cute chick in my office building whom I see occasionally.  She has a MAJOR bitch shield up 24/7, but I make it a point to say "hi" to her like I do most people.  Anyway, I'm on the elevator yesterday, riding down.  She gets on the floor below me.  I say, "Hey, how you doin?"  A second or two passes and she says, "Oh, are you talking to me?"  And I'm like, "Yup.  How you doing?"  We talk for a little bit, I compliment her on her sweater as she is exiting the elevator.  I then go about my day and go to lunch.

I get back from lunch, and apparently this chick came looking for me.  I'm on the tenth floor and there are 12 floors in my building.  She went up to the 12th, described me, and did the same until she got to my office.  I was out of the office at the time, but she left a note with her phone number and office number.  She told the guy at the front desk that she works alone.  I called her last night and we had lunch today.  I time-bridged for drinks later in the week.